Accept yourself whoever and whatever you were in a past and you are in a present moment. Accept yourself with all your flaws. And try to fix the unpleasant things with positive attitude. Because each of us has so many flaws, we just need to identify them and fix them as soon as possible.
Never ever give up whatever the circumstances are. Always believe on yourself. And accept your failures and learn from them. Try to be persistent and work hard foe your goals and dreams.
Always try to learn something. Never stop the learning process.Make it your habit to learn something new daily. Then use that lessons in your life to make it better.
Always tell truth to yourself.Never try to lie to yourself, it hurts later on and it escapes you from reality and make you disrespectful in your own eyes too. Accept the reality, face it bravely and tell yourself truth even it hurts but remind it to yourself.
Live in a present moment.Live today, not in past. Whatever is happened in past, you can’t change that but you can do one thing now that is , don’t repeat the mistakes that you have done in past.
Come out from regrets of pastand enjoy your life today otherwise living in past will ruin your whole life. Concentrate on the things that are in a present moment that are under your control, that you can change not on the things that are out of your control.
Know your purpose of existence thenplan and act accordingly. Stand for your rights. Spend all your time in sowing, growing and nourishing those seeds of plants which can give fruits not only to you but to others too.
“Perhaps the greatest faculty our minds possess is the ability to cope with pain.
Classic thinking teaches us of the four doors of the mind, which everyone moves through according to their need.
1. First is the door of sleep.
Sleep offers us a retreat from the world and all its pain. Sleep marks passing time, giving us distance from the things that have hurt us. When a person is wounded they will often fall unconscious. Similarly, someone who hears traumatic news will often swoon or faint. This is the mind’s way of protecting itself from pain by stepping through the first door.
2. Second is the door of forgetting.
Some wounds are too deep to heal, or too deep to heal quickly. In addition, many memories are simply painful, and there is no healing to be done. The saying ‘time heals all wounds’ is false. Time heals most wounds. The rest are hidden behind this door.
3. Third is the door of madness.
There are times when the mind is dealt such a blow it hides itself in insanity. While this may not seem beneficial, it is. There are times when reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind.
4. Last is the door of death.
The final resort. Nothing can hurt us after we are dead, or so we have been told.”