Love is a verb

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“My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other we used to have.

I guess I just don’t love her anymore and she doesn’t love me.

What can i do?”
“The feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked.
“That’s right,” he reaffirmed. “And we have three children we’re really concerned about. What do you suggest?”
“love her,” I replied.
“I told you, the feeling just isn’t there anymore.”
“Love her.”
“You don’t understand. the feeling of love just isn’t there.”
“Then love her. If the feeling isn’t there, that’s a good reason to love her.”
“But how do you love when you don’t love?” 

“My friend , love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is a fruit of love, the verb.

So love her.

Serve her.

Sacrifice.

Listen to her.

Empathize.

Appreciate.

Affirm her.

Are you willing to do that?”

 (Credit: words of Stephen R. Covey)

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Greatest Challenge in life

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The greatest challenge in life is 

discovering who you are…

The second greatest is

being happy with what you find…

Opportunity to replace words

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Don’t mix  bad words with your  bad mood.

You’ll have many opportunities to change your mode ,

but you will never get  the opportunity to replace the words you spoke…

 

PRINTS ARE AVAILABLE

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Prints of my all paintings are available 

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HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY

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(painting by me)

Happy Happy my Birthday

Not in December , not in September

When i was born 9th was the date

And was a January’s  day

Happy Happy my Birthday.

There is no value of materialistic gifts

In my view

The value is of a great deed,

Kind act, soft words,pure character

Great deeds which i want to do

without any delay

Happy Happy my Birthday.

The day will come when about me

PEOPLE will  say

“WHAT A GREAT PERSON I WAS”

When may be i will cut the cake of my another birthday

Or may be i will not be there but

people remember me by my good deeds

Happy Happy my Birthday.

(writer )

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(painting by me)