Conversation or communication gives some message, which has its own importance but the thing that can make it different and most important is style of conversation.
We might heard many times people complaining that they have been insulted. This is the style, this is the way which make it happen to feel like “insulted”. So the way of saying is more important than the said words.
We can take examples from our daily life. Such as in response to some favor given by someone, we say “thanks” with a smile or say so with clenched teeth and angry eyes. Look that due to the way of speech how same word changes its meaning.
Important points of style of conversation are;
– accent loudness of voice
–high or low pitch
–and facial expressions are all important.
In addition to words, non verbal and audible signs also signify the actual value of message.
So it is the style of conversation that explains the meaning of words and shows the effect of words on us.
So not only think before speech but also make the effective style of saying words which cannot make others feel “uncomfortable”, “hurt” or “insulted”.